Probably not the wisest thing to declare on a sex and dating blog (don’t worry, I still have upcoming sex discourse to keep you entertained), but I’ve quit my job and now I am looking out at the mountains from an ecolodge in Colombia. I’ve hit that classic 30-plus stage of life where you question your existence so far, and then decide to run away … Continue reading I’ve given up on sex and romance and gone to Colombia
A friend of mine, who still uses dating apps, wanted a way to weed out the people she wouldn’t gel with. She had something along the lines of: You should *not* go out with me if you are… a Tory or “not political” As a fellow woman of colour, I get why my friend wrote that. Let’s face it, politics – as in the institutions … Continue reading Men explain politics to me
What a fucking wild ride the last two years have been for everyone. I’ve not written a single post in 2021, and instead have taken the time to think about what matters to me, like most people have. Lockdown seasons 1-3 have been horrible and I hope we never have another one again. I also got bloody Omicron recently, which gave me some time to … Continue reading Hello 2022: the end of my flop era. (Hopefully…)
Like most singletons during this global pandemic, I’m horny as FUCK. Also scared. Really scared, actually. Eternally anxious too. A bit bored as well. Partly due to that last one, I’ve been driven to excessive Hinging during these unprecedented times. As a result, I’ve noticed some common mistakes in men’s dating app profiles, so I’m going to give you all some tips to improve your … Continue reading How to not suck at Hinge
I’m not a home-wrecker though, they are actually in an open relationship – or at least, it’s something they’ve recently started trying. And this definitely isn’t a situation where the man tells me he’s in an open relationship, when he’s really just cheating because, although he was a Tinder match, we had mutual friends so I did a bit of investigating to verify this information. … Continue reading I slept with a guy who has a girlfriend
It’s January and we’re all poor AF. Dating is just another expense – all those drink rounds really add up. To be honest, I have three guys on the booty call rotation atm so I might sack off dating until I got dolla next month. But all this got me thinking about the politics of paying on first dates. I know I don’t owe a … Continue reading The politics of paying for a drink on a first date
Ladies, claim your orgasms. You deserve them. You deserve to cum when you’ve had a long day, when you’re bored, when you’re having sex or just when you want to (as long as any additional parties involved consent to the physical activities you’re doing with them, duh!) Treat yourself to a toy Orgasming when you’re not having sex is easy. Invest in a rabbit, I … Continue reading 2019 resolution: let’s all have more orgasms!
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