Probably not the wisest thing to declare on a sex and dating blog (don’t worry, I still have upcoming sex discourse to keep you entertained), but I’ve quit my job and now I am looking out at the mountains from an ecolodge in Colombia. I’ve hit that classic 30-plus stage of life where you question your existence so far, and then decide to run away … Continue reading I’ve given up on sex and romance and gone to Colombia
What a fucking wild ride the last two years have been for everyone. I’ve not written a single post in 2021, and instead have taken the time to think about what matters to me, like most people have. Lockdown seasons 1-3 have been horrible and I hope we never have another one again. I also got bloody Omicron recently, which gave me some time to … Continue reading Hello 2022: the end of my flop era. (Hopefully…)
I was originally going to title this post “I think you’re all using Tinder wrong” but that’s not constructive. However, I do want to address the emotional exhaustion and boredom you feel when using dating apps, which I have coined “Tinder fatigue” but, annoyingly, a quick Google search shows I wasn’t the first one to come up with it. Damn. So my idea of Tinder … Continue reading How to deal with Tinder fatigue
Over the last few weeks I’ve learnt an important lesson about self-care. I thought I had stopped writing because I was just too busy living my best life – but really, I was running on fumes trying to fulfil all these social commitments without taking a single hour out to check in on myself. And that brings me on to today’s post about the need … Continue reading Don’t neglect your need for self-care
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