I gave up on sex and then slept with a Colombian guy on the beach

In case you didn’t know, I recently wrote my first blog post in 2 years, declaring “I’ve given up on sex and romance and gone to Colombia” and then the universe delivered a man to me that very same day. Perhaps I manifested it; earlier in the day I saw this ADORABLE lesbian couple in my hostel and said out loud, “I wish I could … Continue reading I gave up on sex and then slept with a Colombian guy on the beach

Another tale of cis-het-white-male fuckery

This incident took place in late June, soon after we were allowed to leave our house for sex. Or maybe we weren’t by this point? I, like many of you, have struggled to keep up with the incomprehensible rules set out by our fuckwit government. However, I really did spend the lockdown not going out much and definitely not having sex face-to-face with a second … Continue reading Another tale of cis-het-white-male fuckery

I fucked the WORST white boy last night

CN: Racism Last night at around 12.30am, a Tinder match I had been trying to go on a date with for ages came over. I should have listened to my body (which just wanted to go to bed) but I think I need to re-evaluate my current relationship with sex because the need for that trumped my own desire for sleep. Anyway it ended with … Continue reading I fucked the WORST white boy last night

I slept with a guy who has a girlfriend

I’m not a home-wrecker though, they are actually in an open relationship – or at least, it’s something they’ve recently started trying. And this definitely isn’t a situation where the man tells me he’s in an open relationship, when he’s really just cheating because, although he was a Tinder match, we had mutual friends so I did a bit of investigating to verify this information. … Continue reading I slept with a guy who has a girlfriend