Please don’t ask for feedback after a date

This is an old date story, but I think the lessons learnt here are still relevant. Back when I used to date and use apps, I would ask a filter question before meeting up with anyone I.R.L. to gauge their political beliefs and check if we’re on the same wavelength. This guy was maybe two years younger than me, but he seemed cute. I had … Continue reading Please don’t ask for feedback after a date

I slept with a guy who has a girlfriend

I’m not a home-wrecker though, they are actually in an open relationship – or at least, it’s something they’ve recently started trying. And this definitely isn’t a situation where the man tells me he’s in an open relationship, when he’s really just cheating because, although he was a Tinder match, we had mutual friends so I did a bit of investigating to verify this information. … Continue reading I slept with a guy who has a girlfriend

Shit, I think I was the arsehole here, but also I let him talk to me about his ex.

This is a long one, so brace yourselves. This boy has just left my house, I’ve grabbed my laptop and there are a few things that are clear: I’m chugging water to make sure I pee again and don’t have a UTI. I think I tried to pressure this guy into having sex?! ME?! I’m the bad person in this scenario?!! I’m pretty pissed atm. … Continue reading Shit, I think I was the arsehole here, but also I let him talk to me about his ex.

I just had sex but I feel kind of wierd about it.

I have been desperate to have sex for a while actually – but it has been so damn hard to find ANYONE in London to sleep with, despite it being one of the most densely populated cities in the world. To be fair, I do restrict potential sexual encounters to people in my postcode so that could be it. But a few other things contributed: … Continue reading I just had sex but I feel kind of wierd about it.