Author: Brown Girl Dating

Casual sexual encounters, Long reads

Shit, I think I was the arsehole here, but also I let him talk to me about his ex.

This is a long one, so brace yourselves. This boy has just left my house, I’ve grabbed my laptop and there are a few things that are clear: I’m chugging water to make sure I pee again and don’t have a UTI. I think I tried to pressure this guy into having sex?! ME?! I’m the bad person in this scenario?!! I’m pretty pissed atm. … Continue reading Shit, I think I was the arsehole here, but also I let him talk to me about his ex.

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I just had sex but I feel kind of wierd about it.

I have been desperate to have sex for a while actually – but it has been so damn hard to find ANYONE in London to sleep with, despite it being one of the most densely populated cities in the world. To be fair, I do restrict potential sexual encounters to people in my postcode so that could be it. But a few other things contributed: … Continue reading I just had sex but I feel kind of wierd about it.

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I will not sext people before I have sex with them IRL (and other sexting advice).

Last night I slept with this tall skinny white boy (classic) that I had been sexting for aaaaages. This boy had seen the entire repertoire by the time we finally met. We were matching on-and-off on this hook up app for a while, but it never ended in a meeting, so I usually ended up just sexting him. It’s something I enjoy because I can get … Continue reading I will not sext people before I have sex with them IRL (and other sexting advice).

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No Asian dentist, I will not respond to you after you ghosted me for THREE MONTHS.

I knew I would eventually write about this Asian dentist, but I thought it would be in the post about how I realised that thankfully I wasn’t that racist because I finally started dating Asian men. Instead, the Asian dentist will feature in this classic story about how men are really fucking annoying. There’s a much longer story here that I accidentally started to tell but … Continue reading No Asian dentist, I will not respond to you after you ghosted me for THREE MONTHS.

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Who the fuck am I and why am I writing about having sex?

I’ve not really given much of an explanation for why I’ve written two blog posts about men I slept with last week. I just knew I wanted to start a blog about my dating experiences and since I finally had sex last week, I thought it would be a good time to get the ball rolling. My intention isn’t to write salscious stories about having … Continue reading Who the fuck am I and why am I writing about having sex?

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I slid into some guy’s DMs last night and it was great!

I’m exaggerating slightly with the heading because I first matched this guy on that same hook-up app from last night, but we did move the conversation to Instagram where we organised the logistics of him coming over. I initially made fun of him for giving me his phone number and IG, but his profile photo had those tall skinny wasteman white boy vibes that I’m … Continue reading I slid into some guy’s DMs last night and it was great!

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So I’ve just slept with a guy whose name I don’t know.

I’ve been using this app which I describe as Grindr for straight people – but with a few key differences that I will explain at a later date – and I invited a man around tonight for sex. And now he’s gone I need to tell someone about it, so I’m telling the internet. So back to tonight…we chatted on this app for a bit. … Continue reading So I’ve just slept with a guy whose name I don’t know.

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